Whether or not you want to admit it – if you haven’t tried it, you at least put some thought into going in through the back door. It’s not for everyone, but more and more couples have been giving it a try (we think that Kelly Divine is the reason behind it). It’s no easy task, my friend; however, lucky you have the benefit of perusing this most informational article. So let’s get into it…
MAKE SURE SHE’S OPEN TO IT
Girls love surprises, but not when it can be excruciatingly painful for them. Make sure that your partner is up for the task, even if it takes some convincing. Don’t be embarrassed to bring it up, her reaction may be more favorable than you think.
BE MENTALLY PREPARED
I used to tell my mom that I was going to play football. I would come home with dirt on my clothes and she would be pissed off. Point of the story, you’re sending your soldier in dirty territory and in some cases he can come back dirty. This will not happen if you prepare accordingly (see below), but it’s important that you stay composed if things get messy. It’s a scary experience for her, too, so to avoid anything messy or any embarrassment keep the lights low or off and use dark sheets.
PREPARE
The preparation kind of breaks into two parts here.
A) In porn, many of the actresses douche themselves before having anal. While this can be necessary, it should not be overdone. Porn stars have stretched anal canals that are more battle-ready than your partner’s will be. As elementary as it may sound, if she goes to the bathroom prior – you can still get your freak on without much of a “mess.” Feeling like Casanova? Have some foreplay in the shower beforehand to make the preparation a little sexier.
B) With the same theme as the shower move above, foreplay is critical when going through the back door. By initiating foreplay, you’ll keep her at ease and relaxed (and more willing) – setting the mood and making everything a lot easier, especially the next step.
BE EQUIPPED
My guess is 5 out of 5 guys read this headline and mistook it for their endowment. You need to be equipped with a ton of lube. I can’t emphasize this enough, but this is by far the most important rule here. For the sake of your member and her pipes, you need to load up on lube. Without getting into the horrific details, the absence of lube can lead to some insane pain and possibility of getting nailed with a disease or infection.
PLAY YOUR PART AND PERFORM
You’re not in a porno. Take it slow and stay focused on her pleasure points while she becomes familiar with the sensation. As selfish as it may sound, the first couple times are all about her. You should enjoy that there is more friction, which will make it satisfying for you – still, the focus needs to be on her being comfortable and getting more into it.
KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT
When it all comes down to it, this rule applies to ALL hookups of any kind – especially anal sex. You need to keep your mouth shut and leave all of the kissing and telling to the girls. It’ll boost your confidence when your friends are trying to one up each other, but you’ll secretly know that you are five steps ahead of them. Do yourself a favor and keep your mouth shut, leave the bragging to the girls as talks you up to be the bedroom legend that you are.
